How, as a Leader, do you create enthusiastic followers:
2. Do what you say you’re going to do – Follow through means never having to say you’re sorry.
3. Be transparent and candid along the way – As Louis Brandeis said, “Sunshine is the greatest disinfectant;” never be hesitant to let it shine on you.
4. Take full responsibility for the consequences of your actions and those of people working for you – The buck stops with you, don’t pass it.
5. Be clear and concise – As opposed to confused and confusing.
6. Be prepared to the best of your ability – Don’t shoot from the hip and don’t be afraid to say you’ll get back to us when you don’t know, but then get back to us.
7. Know how to get things done – By getting the right people in the right positions, doing the right things.
8. Have a track record of already getting things done that produce positive measurable results – And for the benefit of others (vs. your own ambitions) that you represent
9. Know what’s important and what isn’t – Have the wisdom to know the right the thing to do, the integrity to do it, the character to stand up to those who don’t, and the courage to stop those who won’t.
10. Don’t do anything in front or behind people’s back that would make others ashamed of you – When possible, have your personal house in order (you can still lead if people discover your having engaged in personal indiscretions that don’t substantively and negatively affect them, but their positive feelings for you will be sullied by wishing you hadn’t).
11. Be comfortable in your own skin – Comfort and discomfort are contagious.
12. Put a smile on other’s faces – And cause others to feel that they put a smile on yours.
13. When you smile, have it touch your eyes (and when possible your heart) – The eyes are the royal road to the soul and not a bad lie detector.
14. Don’t take yourself too seriously – Laugh at yourself and the world laughs with you and not at you, and we could all use a good laugh.
15. Listen well – Be more interested in your people and your customers than you are interesting.
For those who think the above are too soft and being a great leader is only about results and the bottom line, what kind of performance do you think you will get from people if instead of instilling the above, you trigger: Distrust, Doubt, a Loss of Respect and Dislike*? In fact, why not hand out this blog to your stakeholders and have them anonymously rate you on the four above categories and fifteen subcategories on a scale of: 1 to 3, where 1 = rarely, 2 = sometimes, 3 = frequently?
* One of reasons that leaders who engender Trust, Confidence, Respect and Enjoyment motivate and inspire us is that they narrow our Mirror Neuron Gap. And one of the reasons that leaders who do the opposite trigger resentment and resistance is that they widen it. The Mirror Neuron Gap is the difference between how much we psychologically adapt to and care about the needs and desires of others and how much we experience others as psychologically adapting to and caring about us. Read more about this at: Narcissists, Neurotics and Mirror Neuron Gaps and at: Failure to Communicate and Close the Mirror Neuron Gap.
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This post originally appeared at Usable Insight.
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